In this article, we’re going to address some of the common factors observed across the board and talk about ways to de-escalate a perceived threat while driving. Keep your gun in that holster and read these tips before you get back on the road if you’re prone to road rage.
Observing Stress Points While Driving: Just as important as understanding that some fool in a motorized vehicle cut you off at 80 mph and then hit the brakes, is recognizing that this action has affected how you emotionally handle the situation. The common consolation is “get over it”. But what if you can’t? What if this guy’s actions are the tipping point? Here’s a friendly reminder: you are always in control of your own actions. You’re allowed to feel any emotion you want. Your actions are what you will be judged by. Consider wisely and recognize this as a stress point.
Rule #1: Don’t instigate! Just because the other driver did something callous or stupid doesn’t give you permission to do the same. Consider everything you’ve worked to achieve in this life and everything you have.
Rule #2: Stay focused. It doesn’t matter how many times you get cut off — you will get to your destination. If the guy (or gal) in front of you or behind you doesn’t seem to get that, fine. Let them do it their way.
Rule #3: Hone The Difference Between Self-Defense And Unchecked Anger. You feeling angry has nothing to do with your safety. You not arriving on time to your destination because somebody is acting the fool on the road is not a justifiable use of a firearm. And lastly, if you’re at a stop light and someone gets out and begins to approach your car — you need to be of sound enough mind to recognize that as a real potential threat.